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In the river of no return.......

For those who really never say Goodbye...Dedicated to the countable no. of KANK lovers...


Some spend their entire life waiting for "the one", some live their lives loving because they need to, some swindle and go for what they feel is the most lovable, some don't even know what love is.....the poorest of the entire lot...Therefore no question of waiting also....it's so easy for them to live a life but what about those who know, who wait, who doesnt find and who find but can't fulfill.....

Remembered a song in this context..
"Why not forget your crazy dream
About a love that can’t exist
’coz while you dream so much you miss
You waste a lifetime"

And understanding this probably one does this...

"Why don’t you take a look around
Not everyone has settled down
But you still think you’re seventeen
It’s a crazy dream
So take a chance and take your shot
No paradise but it’s all we’ve got
And I will try to make your dream come true"

And what if this turns out to be wrong??? What if after you settle down finding " someone you can live your life with" , a friend, an aquaintance or a stranger your parents find for you, is not really fulfilling or rather you find the one after you settle down?

DO we really need to compromise?? Do we?? Even when we fall in love? Forget the situations I mentioned before.... In my entire life I hardly have seen two people falling in love ..genuinely....without any second thought and without any thought of this cruel and boofonish world... And does all these really matter?? And do I really have to spend my life just waiting and building dreams which this world is never meant to suffice?

And this is where I not only liked but loved the movie. What if you find your love after you get
married? Is it really your fault for which you need to sacrifice your love or rather your whole life? And not only do you make your life miserable, your partener's too... And that's so so bad...
The biggest question I've faced after claiming that I liked the movie is..." How do you justify Rani's character? Any girl would be lucky enough to have such a nice husband!" ...Hello Guyz....Do you even know that it takes more than "niceness" to love?? People fall in love with gangsters too... Its chemistry dears...FYI.

Life is not a piece of cake , I know and my experience of life prevents me to be a fool again
by expecting things to be just in the right time and place....But please don't be so boorish to deny things when it comes to you..I understand ethics perfectly well ... but living life together in
pretense is the most unethical thing I could ever think of...

Life,death,love,marriage........big words indeed...unactuable...each one of them...And amongst all this ,I've just heard that some people do find their counterpart....Some marriages which are really made in heaven which is not grey....Just hoped if every one could be so lucky....

Comments

Anonymous said…
Hey,
Read your blogs and loved them...will come back for more.
Anonymous said…
i havent seen the movie but i have heard so much about it that i comment on your write-up. well justified!

Hope u remain as starry-eyed n nothing happens to shatter your dreams.
Anonymous said…
What if the perfect one was always infront of you but you never noticed as you were waiting for some magic to happen. Best things in life arrive unnoticed.

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